Heartbreaks Heal Heartbreaks

Two years ago, I found myself trying to make everything good for a friend suffering from a severe depression over a love gone wrong. Like what I always tell others, I told my friend that the best way to get healed and move on is by getting through the pain of losing. That is, getting used to the pain every second, every moment that you can have. It is, well, in a way, a form of torture, but it gives you back bits and pieces of your life that was shared.

It is difficult to do it. Just by thinking about reliving the memories can push you to do things as bizarre as suicide. Try to make small steps at the beginning, then slowly command yourself towards the bigger and more dramatic instances. Time will cover you until you reach that point where you can finally tell yourself, “I’m free!”